Beginners guide to Facebook (2013)

Beginners guide to Facebook (2013)

In this guide you will learn what your timeline is, what are notifications, private messaging, how to search for people, sending & receiving friend request and much more.

Let’s face it…Facebook can be downright confusing when you first sign up. In this beginners guide to Facebook I’ll cover the basic anatomy of Facebook.

Gone will be your frustration and you’ll be able to enjoy Facebook keeping up with your family and friends.

Of course that does depend on the family and friends you have in your newsfeed. 😉

In this Beginners Guide you’ll learn:

  • What is your NewsFeed and what shows up there
  • What is your Timeline and how do you get to it
  • How to Search for people and brands
  • Sending/ Receiving Friend Request
  • How to send and receive Private Messages
  • What are notifications

When we first log into FB we are brought to our “home” page. This page is where everything happens. We are always able to get back to this page by simply clicking on the Home button located at the top right.


We are going to start at the very top and work our way down the page.

Facebook’s Search Bar

To search for people, places or things you simply click where it says Search and start typing in who or what you are looking for. The below illustration is for those that have the new Graph Search on Facebook.

Facebook even suggest things you can search on but for now just know this is where you search for people, places, business and things on FB.

For those that have the old Facebook layout and have not been switched to the new Graph Search your Search bar will look like this:


Friend Request, Messages, Notifications…oh My!!!

friends-messages-notification-fbred-number-1Friend Request Icon: This is where you can view your friend request. These are people who have requested your friendship on FB. You will see that FB looks at who your friends are and will suggest people that you may know also. If you see someone you know on this list and want to request them as a friend then click the icon Add Friend and a request will be sent to them.

red-number-2Messages: Right here is where you can send and receive PRIVATE messages from friends. When you send a message the only person that will see this message is the person you sent it to or If you receive a message from someone then you are the only one that can see it…unless the message was sent to a group of people on FB.

red-number-3Notifications: This is where you will find your notifications. Notifications let you know when people take actions on Facebook related to you. Some notifications can be people liking, commenting or sharing your post, pictures or videos. Whenever you see a Red square with a number in it, that is letting you know that you have that many notifications ready for you to view.

Let’s head over here to the left hand side of your page. This gives you a quick way to jump to your news feed, any messages you may have, your photos and anything you have chosen to be a favorite, which is basically things you visit the most.

Below your Favorites you’ll see any Pages that you administer or have created, then groups you are a part of, Friends and any list you have put them on, Apps you have on Facebook and more.


Facebook’s News Feed and what you can expect to find there

Now let’s get into the News Feed. The News Feed, which is the center column of your home page—is a constantly updating list of stories from people and Pages that you follow on Facebook. News feed stories include status updates, photos, videos, links, app activity and likes.


From your news feed you are able to like, comment or share whatever you choose. Keep in mind, that when you take one of these actions on a status update, photo or video, depending on what they had the privacy settings set at, your friends will be able to see what action you took.

For instance, if you were to “like” an image you saw in your News Feed then it will show up in your friends ticker located to the right and they will see what action you took.

Speaking of the Ticker, it shows you the things you can already see on Facebook, but in real time. It allows you to


  • Keep up with the latest news as it happens
  • Listen to music with your friends
  • Or you can click or hover over a story to join in the conversation or take an action on the story like so.

Also, you have the ability to hide or show the ticker by clicking on this little icon.


SIDE NOTE: According to Facebook, the Ticker only shows up for people with a certain level of account activity. So if you do not have a ticker it’s probably because you are not connected to people or Pages that use Facebook a lot, so there’s not enough activity to make ticker useful to you. Also, Facebook does have an updated news feed coming out very soon, some of you may already have it, but from what I understand the Ticker is going away so this may be obsolete in the near future.

Your Facebook Timeline

Okay now on to YOUR Timeline.

To get to your Timeline simply click on your picture located at the top right.


Your timeline is all about you. It is your collection of the photos, stories, and experiences that tell your story. Some of the things you can do on your timeline:


red-number-1Add a cover photo and profile photo – A cover photo is the larger photo at the top of your timeline, right above your profile picture. Like your profile picture, cover images are public, which means anyone visiting your timeline will be able to see them.

red-number-2You can edit your basic information (ex: contact info, relationships, work and education) by clicking Update Info then clicking on any Edit button in the top right of each section, enter your new info and click Save.

red-number-3Jump to stories from your past – by scrolling through your timeline, or use the menu of dates on the right side of your timeline to jump from year to year. Just click a year to see what was going on in your life during that time.

red-number-4View a log of your Facebook activity – Your activity log is a tool that lets you review and manage what you share on Facebook. If you liked a status or photo last week you can go to your Activity log and find it there. Keep in mind that only you can see your activity log.

red-number-5Update your status – By updating your status you’re basically sending out a message to all your friends letting them know what you are up to. Pick what type of story you want to share (ex:  Status,  Photo)

  1. Type in any details you want to add
  2. You can tag friends, pick a date for the story, add a location or tell people what you’re doing or how you’re feeling.
  3. Select an audience for your post and
  4. Click Post

red-number-6You can view your photos that others tagged you in or view all the photos you have uploaded. From here you can also view any albums that you have created. This is where you can add more photos, albums and any videos that you want to share with others.

Every timeline is set up the same way. So if you wanted to visit your friends Timeline you will be able to find out all about them (well the parts they want to share with you lol), by clicking on their About tab. You can also view mutual friends you may have, their photos and other topics of interest as well.

Private Messaging – Who can see what?

To send them a PRIVATE message click on message. This box pops up and you are able to send a file or an image. Write your message then click on Send. This message will not be seen by anyone other than the person you messaged.


Posting on your friends timeline will be seen by others.

When you post on your friends timeline others will be able to view what you have written or shared. For example, my sister has a friend of hers, which I am not friends of, share a post on her timeline that I was able to see. So keep in mind when writing or sharing with a friend on their timeline, others will be able to see it.

There you have it. A quick overview of Facebook and what each component is. I know there is so much more to Facebook so I will be putting together more videos and tutorials to get you up to speed.

If you would like to watch me walk through this tutorial you can view my YouTube video that as of today (2/19/14) has almost 28,000 views.

What is one thing that you just can’t seem to wrap your mind around when it comes to Facebook? Let me know and I’ll be more than happy to help you so that you can fully understand the power of Facebook.

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  1. Olga July 24, 2013

    I am new to facebook. My grandchildren have begged me to join in the fun, photos, etc. I am soooooooo confused.
    How do I get rid of all the postings taking up my time in scrolling?

    • Audrey July 25, 2013

      Hey Olga, I did a quick Video Tutorial that will hopefully answer your question about scrolling. In the video I also go over how to add a List. A List is nothing more than the people you want to stay connected with and not miss any of their postings. It will also eliminate the need for scrolling, unless you want to continue to scroll. Here is the link for the video.
      If you have any other questions don’t hesitate to ask. I’ll do my best in answering them. :)

  2. Olga July 24, 2013

    Am I suppose to stay logged on How safe is that

    • Audrey July 25, 2013

      Hi Olga, Since I am the only one that uses my computer, other than my teenager getting on their and hacking my FB for fun LOL, I usually always stay logged on to Facebook.
      If I access my FB account through another computer or device like a smartphone or tablet I will ALWAYS log out. Keep in mind though that if you are logged into Facebook and you are reading articles online and click the Facebook “Like” button then your friends will see that in their newsfeed and know what you are reading and liking.
      For example, after this post I have the Social Media icons and one of them is the FB “Like” button. If you were logged into Facebook and clicked that like button then your friends on FB would see that in their newsfeed and might follow the link to it.
      Does that make sense?
      Keep the questions coming because I know it can be so overwhelming and I want you to outsmart the Grandkids. 😉

  3. David Fruend September 23, 2013

    Dear Audrey,

    I loved your video,
    would like to use it to
    produce a hebrew version of my own.
    Your permission and blessing much needed.

    Flourish and Prosper

    David Fruend

    • Audrey September 23, 2013

      Hi David,
      Thank you so much for the vote of confidence. You may absolutely use this video to produce a Hebrew version, many blessings to you for it.
      Can you do me favor? I’d LOVE to see it when you’re done. I’m just curious how it’s going to look when it’s done.

      Blessings to you and yours. :)

  4. Timothy Taylor January 15, 2014

    I have a Page created for our School Division on Facebook. I would like people from the various schools in our division to be able to post on the timeline of the page. What do I have to do to make this happen? Thanks – Tim

    • Audrey January 16, 2014

      Hey Timothy,

      To ensure that anyone can post on your page following these simple instructions:
      1. Go to the page you want to allow people to post on
      2. Admin panel should be up top click on Edit Page then Edit Settings
      3. 2nd one down should say Posting Ability and to the far right click on Edit
      4. Check the box for Everyone Can Post and if you want anyone to be able to add photos or videos make sure you check that one also.
      5. Click Save Changes
      and you’re done. Now anyone can post on your page.

      Hope that helps. :)

  5. Heather Gate February 3, 2014

    Hi Audrey,

    I would like your permission to link to your Facebook Tutorial video from our training portal with full credit to you. After doing some research I found that you had the best Facebook Tutorial. I am the digital literacy Program Development Manager for a Kentucky-based non-profit that’s interested in ensuring that people have the basic skills to use applications that are available via the Internet.

    Please let me know if this is ok with you.

    I look forward to hearing from you.

    • Audrey February 4, 2014


      Wow, what an honor. Yes, you absolutely have permission to use the tutorial. I’m just glad that others have been able to utilize the video and learn about Facebook. As I’m sure you know, it can be quite daunting and overwhelming when you first arrive on it.

      If at all possible would I be able to see how you link it all together? It would be great to show the local businesses that I help how the video is helping others as well. 😉

      Thanks so much for contacting me and I hope it’s able to help others better understand Facebook.

  6. Mark Toughill May 7, 2014

    Hi Audrey, I would just like to say thank you for creating a tutorial that makes it so easy to understand the basic principles of facebook. I have been looking online for weeks trying to find someone to give me some simple straight forward training so I can understand how to begin as a complete newbie and was getting nowhere up until now that is. I will definitely be looking out for any other training you make available as I think your training is excellent and the way to go for me.
    Thank you for sharing your wisdom with us in an easy step by step tutorial and now I can finally actually see a way forward for me on facebook.
    Many thanks Mark

    • Audrey Ostoyic May 8, 2014

      I can’t tell you how much your comment means to me. I put together this training after I saw a lot of people getting on Facebook and not understanding the difference between a friends wall and their private messages. There are so many videos out there that target Businesses but there are millions of FB users that don’t understand all the working of FB. I just wanted to help those people to be able to understand it a little bit better. 😉
      Comments like your’s always bring a smile to my face, warmth in my heart and is the best payment of the time it took to put together.
      Thank you so much for taking the time to comment and I am working on putting many more videos together to help out even more, be watching for them.
      ~ Audrey

  7. jose January 1, 2015

    it is very useful for me like a beginner and am going to make it practical; thank you very much for the presentation

    • Audrey Ostoyic January 2, 2015

      Hi Jose,
      So glad this tutorial was able to help you understand Facebook a little bit better. I know it can be confusing when you first get on it so I wanted to at least explain the basics of it.
      Thanks for stopping by, watching and commenting. I really appreciate that.

      Be Blessed,

  8. Terry May 20, 2015

    Hi Audrey, Thanks for all of the info. It sure makes navigating Facebook a lot easier. I wanted to ask you how can you tell if the person you sent a message to has read it or not? This person isn’t set up for Friend Request. What does that backward or curved arrow mean? Does this mean they haven’t read it yet? Thanks.

    • darren October 6, 2016

      it means you were the last person to send that message to that person. it’s pointing left to symbol it went out from you to them.

  9. Viki May 23, 2015

    Great job on this tutorial. You have a talent for turning something confusing for a beginner into something that is clear, concise, and not burdened with technical language. That is a real gift. Good luck to you in all that you do.

    • Audrey Ostoyic June 15, 2015

      Wow Viki, I am truly humbled and I thank you so much for this sweet comment and encouragement. It means more to me then you’ll ever know.
      Be Blessed,

  10. Judy July 15, 2015

    Hi Audrey,

    I guess i’m and advanced beginner on FB. I have 2 questions which I hope you can help me with. I’ve gotten some answers from the FB owl help page, but my FB page didn’t have the same configuration they said I should follow. :(
    Question 1: Before I knew how to share with select “friends” by using Messenger, I clicked on “Share” and the posting ended up on my home page (or maybe my timeline). Which ever it’s on, I’d like to remove them. Is that possible?

    Question 2: I seem to have done something that has given some posters to post tens of posts several times a day. How can I stop them?

    Thanking you in advance for your help,

    • Audrey Ostoyic July 15, 2015

      Judy – hopefully I understood what you are asking. For the first question, if your post is showing up on your Timeline you are able to either hide it or delete the post altogether. Check out the image below and follow these steps: Go to your Timeline, find the post you want to delete, mouse over the little down arrow locating to the right of the post then you can choose to hide from timeline or delete it. If you delete it then it is deleted entirely off of Facebook, if you just hide it from your timeline, it will still show up in the news feed of your friends but whenever someone comes to your timeline they won’t be able to see it. Does that answer your question?
      Deleting a post or hiding it from Timeline

      For question number 2 are you referring to a Business Page or your own personal page? Are you saying someone got a hole of your account and are posting a lot during the day as you? If so, I’d change your password ASAP and get your account back. Or are you talking about people posting on your timeline ten times a day?

      Be Blessed,

  11. Ana Maria Ferrer August 3, 2015

    I will like to write in Pacific Education facebook bur always I try to so, it returns to

    Could you please advise what to do.

    Many thanks.

    • Audrey Ostoyic August 3, 2015

      Hi there Ana Maria,

      I’m not quite sure what you’re asking me. Are you saying that anytime you put in your email address is doesn’t allow you to? Are you able to write down the steps you took so I understand your question?

      Be Blessed,

  12. Harvey Banner August 24, 2015

    Hello Audrey, I was looking for some help on Youtube and I happen to see your video and I am hoping that you can help me by answering some questions.

    My partner and I share a Facebook page for the purpose of informing people of any and all events and updates. In light of this, she posted some information on our FB page and as a result, I received the update (SMS TEXT NOTIFICATION) of what she posted on our FB page. I inadvertently responded to her not realizing that it was not a regular text message on my phone to her phone. Naturally she was upset that I responded, and now she thinks that everyone else, that are friends, will receive the same message on thier TIMELINE. So, I want to know and understand for sure if this is possible?

    E.G. below…

    (123) 456 – 78 <> What does this number represent?

    TODAY IS A GOOD DAY. This is her text message sent as an update from our FB page, from her computer, sent out as public and as I received as a text message on my cell phone.

    TODAY IS NOT A GOOD DAY. This is my response to her from my cell phone.

    Upon you reviewing this, will all others that are listed as friends in Facebook/TIMELINE OR AS A POST, see this same messages???

    Or does this text go directly to her and her alone or will my message go out to others as a public text???

    Please get back to me at your earliest convenience.

    Thank you.


    • Audrey Ostoyic August 25, 2015

      If I’m understanding what you wrote then your friends should not be able to see what you responded with however, those on your Business page will be able to see it.
      So basically, if you’re talking about a Business Page (not your personal profiles) that you both are admins for, your fans, those that have “liked” your page saw the status update: Today is a good day, then under it, they probably see the text you sent as a response to that update.
      In order for me to truly understand and see what happened I’d have to see your Business page. Would you mind sharing that with me?

  13. Patricia Kimball September 6, 2015

    Dear Audrey, I learn best through the written word & wondered if you could walk me through using an email picture for my profile on Facebook. At 77 I’m still trying to master Web–I’m am continually amazed at the information that is now at our fingertips! Thanks, Pat

    • Audrey Ostoyic October 1, 2015

      Hi Pat,

      I sent you an email about this and was wondering if you got it?


  14. nancy edwards January 17, 2016

    My FB home page icons did not quite match those on the tutorial. I no longer have messages since I opened messenger as a separate icon. Also I don’t know how to add more people to me messenger group. I’m trying to set up “groups”.

    This tutorial is a great start ! I still have questions about posting photos so I can do it correctly.

    • Audrey Ostoyic February 4, 2016

      Hi Nancy,
      Thank you so much for watching and commenting.
      Are you talking about the FB Messenger App for a tablet/smart phone? If so, then you’re right, the message box I believe does go away and in order to see all the features that are along the left side you would need to select the icon that looks like three horizontal lines with the word More under it. This will give you that list that I go over in the video. If you are using a tablet let me know and I can put together instructions on how to set-up a group using the FB app.

      Be Blessed,

  15. Glynne Adams September 1, 2016

    Please – how do I DELETE 2 of the 3 smaller photos in the (slightly) top left of my Timeline page – –
    AND (as the large photo I/we had put in at the Top – has all the top part cut off (with my face on it!) – – How do I delete that and add it again with just the top half showing (showing my face!)??

    (In fact, please explain HOW I/we DO delete unwanted photos?)

    Glynne & May Adams

    • Audrey Ostoyic September 2, 2016

      Hi Glynne & Mary,

      Those pictures I believe you’re talking about are the featured images. In order to get rid of them mouse over the pictures and you should see a pencil appear to the top right of the pictures. Click on that pencil. You’ll be brought to a pop up box that will have those images in there. At the top right of each picture you’ll see an X, click on that and it will delete those photos. Be sure to save it and then those photos should be gone. As far as deleting photos off of Facebook I have a YouTube Channel that I show you how to do that. Check it out here…
      Hope that helps!
      Be Blessed,


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